Recently a thought that’s weighed heavy on my mind- is provoked by females (and probably some males too) that ditch their longtime friends for a romantic relationship.
You will never live in a world where you can A.) Talk poorly of your lover B.) Be treated poorly by your lover and still maintain a level of respect by the people that care for you. If you can sit around and talk about your man/female as if their shit ain’t shit and “he ain’t even cute”, “she a hoe anyway”, and your friends don’t call you out on your shit: That aintcha boo, and that aintcha friend.
Relationships aren’t on the easy list- but they sure as fuck aren’t on the Things to Make You Miserable list either.
The energy you allow in, the love you accept, the treatment you tolerate, all says novels about you. If you accept a lesser form of “love”, and you bitch and moan- and your bestfriend doesn’t hate your girl/boyfriend for it… you have nothing but fakes in your life, and you should take a weekend to reevaluate your life.